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Unflinching
The Making of a Canadian Sniper
- Publisher
- Simon & Schuster
- Initial publish date
- Sep 2015
- Category
- General, Military, Personal Memoirs
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Hardback
- ISBN
- 9781476795102
- Publish Date
- Sep 2015
- List Price
- $32.00
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eBook
- ISBN
- 9781476795126
- Publish Date
- Sep 2015
- List Price
- $9.50 USD
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Paperback / softback
- ISBN
- 9781476795119
- Publish Date
- May 2016
- List Price
- $22.00
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Elite sniper Jody Mitic loved being a soldier. His raw, candid, and engrossing memoir follows his personal journey into the Canadian military, through sniper training, and firefights in Afghanistan, culminating on the fateful night when he stepped on a landmine and lost both of his legs below the knees.
Afghanistan, 2007. I was a Master Corporal, part of an elite sniper team sent on a mission to flush out Taliban in an Afghan village. I had just turned thirty, after three tours of duty overseas. I’d been shot at by mortars, eyed the enemy through my scope, survived through stealth and stamina. I’d been training for war my entire adult life. But nothing prepared me for what happened next.
A twenty-year veteran of the Canadian Armed Forces, Jody Mitic served as a Master Corporal and Sniper Team Leader on three active tours of duty over the course of seven years. Known for his deadly marksmanship, his fearlessness in the face of danger, and his “never quit” attitude, he was a key player on the front in Afghanistan. As a sniper, he secured strongholds from rooftops, engaged in perilous ground combat, and joined classified night operations to sniff out the enemy.
In this gritty, no-holds-barred memoir, Jody reveals he was born to be a soldier. An aimless teen in search of belonging, he found brotherhood and discipline in army life. In sniper school, he learned the mindset of a hunter-killer and developed the hyper-sensory precision of a human predator.
On the warfront, Jody experienced first-hand the valour and the chaos, the battle scars and the pain of war—including the tragic losses of fellow soldiers wounded or killed in action. And one day in 2007, when he was on a mission in a small Afghan village, he stepped on a landmine and the course of his life was forever changed. After losing both of his legs below the knees, Jody was forced to confront the loss of the only identity he had ever known—that of a soldier.
Determined to be of service to his family and to his country, he refused to let injury defeat him. Within three years after the explosion, he was not only walking again, he was running. By 2013, he was a star on the blockbuster reality TV show Amazing Race. And in 2014, Jody reinvented himself yet again, winning a seat as a city councillor for Ottawa.
Unflinching is a powerful chronicle of the honour and sacrifice of an ordinary Canadian fighting for his country, and an authentic portrait of military life. It’s also an inspirational memoir about living your dreams, even in the face of overwhelming adversity, and having the courage to soldier on.
About the author
Jody Mitic is a twenty-year Canadian Armed Forces veteran and Sniper Team Leader. A sought-after motivational speaker, he is a respected advocate for wounded veterans, people with disabilities, and amputees. He founded the Never Quit Foundation and currently sits on the Board of Directors of Won with One, an organization devoted to helping physically challenged athletes realize their dreams. He currently serves on Ottawa City Council. Jody lives in Ottawa with his wife, Alannah, and two daughters, Aylah and Kierah. Currently, Jody is soliciting stories from Canadian veterans and active military personnel for a new book. If you have a story to share, visit CanadianSoldierStories.ca for more information on how to submit. Find Jody Mitic on Facebook and @JODYMITIC on Twitter.
Excerpt: Unflinching: The Making of a Canadian Sniper (by (author) Jody Mitic)
Unflinching 1 THE SOLDIER IN THE CHILD
MY MOM was never keen to let me play with guns when I was a kid—which is not the way you would expect a story about a Canadian sniper to start. She was irate when somebody gave me a cap-gun rifle for my seventh birthday.
“What do they think they’re doing, giving a kid a weapon? No son of mine is going to shoot his way out of situations.”
“But, Mom, I’m not going to shoot at people. I’m going to shoot at stuff.”
“Stuff? Stuff like what?”
“Um, cans?”
My mother sighed. “You can stand on the front porch—and only on the front porch—and you can play with the rifle there, shooting at ‘stuff’ . . . or cans. Only that. Got it?”
“Sure, Mom.” It was hard to hide my glee. From that moment on, I practised shooting all the time. I loved that little gun. I’d load it with a roll of caps, which had eight shots in each one, and I’d aim at just about anything, pretending the gun was real. I vividly remember the sound it made, that distinct Pop!, and the smoke that used to come out after each little explosion. It didn’t take me long to use up all the caps. Then Mom refused to buy me more. But that didn’t stop me from running around with the gun and hearing the sound in my head.
When I wasn’t on the porch, I would often pretend to shoot with a hockey stick that I imagined into a gun. When I asked Mom for some G.I. Joe action figures, the response was clear: “No.” But I didn’t give up asking, and eventually she relented, under one condition: “Jody, none of your G.I. Joes can be carrying weapons.” My shoulders slumped. If they weren’t carrying weapons, what was the point?
Beyond just playing with guns, one of my favourite games was War. At Grandma and Grandpa’s house, I’d watch World War II documentaries, and then I’d re-enact war scenes in their basement with my cousins. There was a stockpile of past Christmas gifts at Grandma and Grandpa’s—including plastic guns and rifles that fired suction darts—and all of us kids would go wild down in that basement. The two couches at either end became our fortresses, and we’d throw pillows at each other simulating bombs and grenades. We got so into it that every single one of us kids shed blood at one point or another, usually when the pillows were put aside and we started throwing “grenades” that were a little heavier. We all have scars from when things got a little out of hand.
Even when I was very young, I’d always choose to play the role of the sniper. Some of the other kids would want to be commanders or tank drivers or pilots, but not me. If there was a toy weapon with a scope on it, I would choose it. I’d pretend to aim, taking my time to actually imagine where the bullet would hit, then I’d imaginary-shoot at one of my “enemy” cousins.
I guess you could blame my fascination with guns and the military on my uncle Jim, who was in the Canadian Armed Forces. When I was a little kid, I remember waiting for Uncle Jim to arrive for the holidays. The doorbell would ring and I’d go running to the door. We’d open up, and there Uncle Jim would be—in full uniform, robust, with sandy-brown hair and his signature moustache—holding out a teddy bear for me. When I was a kid, I thought Uncle Jim was the coolest guy ever. He’d tell stories from his time in the army, and even though I didn’t always understand everything, I understood enough to know that Uncle Jim was a bit of a badass, and to me, that was amazing. His presence had a profound and positive impact on my impressionable young mind. As I grew older, Uncle Jim always fed my interest in his line of work.
When I was about twelve, Uncle Jim took me on a private tour of the Canadian Forces Borden air base, north of Toronto. I stood next to real-life fighter jets, not LEGO replicas I’d built in my bedroom. I distinctly remember feeling so small beside those planes, and yet feeling secure in my awe of that type of firepower.
When I was a bit older, Top Gun came out in theatres, and my dreams of becoming an F-14 pilot were born. It was a short-lived dream.
“Uncle Jim,” I said, “I want to be like Tom Cruise! I want to fly an F-14!”
Uncle Jim broke it to me in his dry, matter-of-fact tone, the one he reserved for times like this. “Jody, the Canadian Armed Forces doesn’t have F-14s. We don’t have aircraft carriers. We don’t have a Top Gun school. We have about three hundred pilots in the force, with only a hundred F-18s.”
Okay then, I thought. I was too good-looking to fly planes anyway. Back to the original dream of being a “ground pounder” in the good ol’ infantry.
So that was Mom and Uncle Jim. Then there was my dad.
Dad wasn’t as opposed to my military fascination as my mom was. He’d grown up poor, and to him, guns were a regular part of life. They were used for hunting and for bringing home extra food for the family. When I was a kid, Dad showed me the shotguns he’d used when he was younger to shoot at rabbits—single- and double-barrelled guns. He told me about my uncle Pete, his younger brother, who apparently was an amazing shot. According to family lore, Uncle Pete once saw a rabbit go bounding over a fence and was so quick with the shotgun that he killed it in midair.
When I was little, Dad used to say, “When you’re old enough, Jody, you and me are going to go hunting, just like I did when I was a boy.” But life had changed so much since he was a kid, and as I got older, Dad had to devote a lot of his time and energy to his job. He didn’t have time for some of his dreams, which by that point had also become my dreams. He was a middle-class workingman doing his best to look after his family—including me; my younger brother, Cory; and my little sister, Katie.
When I was five, we moved from Kitchener, Ontario, to Winnipeg because my dad was hired on to the staff at the Canadian Auto Workers union. We were all excited for him and proud. But this change in my dad’s job was the root of troubles between him and Mom. I had a great childhood overall, but because of Dad’s work, he was rarely home, and that was tough on Mom. When I was ten, Dad shot to the top of the organization, becoming one of four assistant vice-presidents to “Uncle Buzz,” as we knew him—Buzz Hargrove to everyone else. We moved from Winnipeg to Brampton as part of Dad’s promotion. I remember the sounds of that house—the slamming of the front door, and even the sound of shattering glass when that door was slammed too hard one day after an argument between Mom and Dad.
My parents eventually split up when I was a teenager. This wasn’t a huge shock to me, but for Cory, who’s almost five years younger than me, and for Katie, who’s six years my junior, it was probably harder to process. My dad bought a condo across town in Brampton and still lives there. Cory, Katie and I lived with Mom in a house in Brampton.
Mom was the decision maker on the home front. She was the commanding officer and the sergeant major. As commanding officer, she’d give us our orders: “I want those bedrooms cleaned, now.” Then she’d return a while later in her role as Sergeant Major to inspect our work and make sure we’d done it right. And even though she stood only about five foot four, she was tough and anything but a pushover.
“Mom, I want to play the drums. I want to rock and roll!”
“No. Too loud. Too expensive. Play the piano. Everyone plays the piano.”
“Mom, I want to take tae kwon do and do other martial arts. Bruce Lee kicks! Hee-ya!”
Crickets.
Even though she didn’t always support my whims, Mom did an amazing job of raising three kids. This was a woman who’d lost her own parents to a car accident when she was only ten years old. She and her siblings ended up scattered and she lived in a foster home for a good chunk of her childhood. Did she ever get the support she needed? I somehow doubt it. But one thing was clear: she would do anything for her kids, and she was fierce. I was a big reader when I was young, and still am. I’d read anything, from newspapers to comics to The Lord of the Rings. I got that trait from Mom, who read at every chance she got.
“Mom, what are you reading?”
“A book about parenting.”
“Why?”
“So I can do a good job of raising you. You think this is easy?”
Even then, I knew it wasn’t. Mom had to learn on the go. I give her a ton of credit for being an amazing mother, even at the most difficult times, and in my teenage years, I made sure there were plenty of those.
I was a tall and gangly teen. There are pictures of me when I was fourteen and my legs look so disproportionate to the rest of me. I was about six foot one, weighed only about 135 pounds and had bad acne. I wasn’t exactly popular on the high school scene. And after we moved from Winnipeg, I had a hard time adjusting to the school system in Ontario. I was a loner who didn’t fit in. I still dreamt of being in the army, probably because I wanted to belong to something, and it was definitely clear I didn’t belong in school.
When I was fourteen, I had the usual teenage depression, but I probably took things too far when I decided to run away from home. I had started hanging around with some kids who had been in a group home. They seemed way more interesting than the regular kids at high school, and I tried to do what they did, including taking up smoking. Funny that at the time, these kids meant the world to me—they made me feel that I finally belonged to something, a group where I fit in and had a role to play—but I can’t remember a single one of their names today.
On the day I took off, I wrote a note to my parents saying I didn’t want to live at home anymore and that I was leaving for good. I took the keys to my mom’s car and headed out with a bunch of these kids from the group home. I had never been behind the wheel of a car before. But I had always paid close attention to Dad when he drove, and I figured it out.
We put some camping gear in the trunk and I withdrew all the money I had in my bank account—about $200. We were going to drive all the way to Mexico. Oh yeah. We had it all figured out. The whole experience lasted about four days. We didn’t have a map or a real plan or even ID, and we were getting very close to the U.S. border. All of my money had gone up in smoke by that point—literally, in the form of cigarettes. A couple of the kids had already bailed on our trip and had gone back to the group home. One of the other guys said he could get some cash from his sister in Mississauga, so we drove all the way back to the Greater Toronto Area. While he was in the apartment getting the money, I was startled by a knock on the window. A police officer was staring down at me. I rolled down the window.
“Driver’s licence?”
“Um. I don’t have one,” I said.
He walked back to his cruiser, hopped in and stayed there for a few minutes. When he returned, he leaned into the driver’s-side window and said, “Okay, Jody. So why did you run away from home?”
I didn’t give him any answers because I didn’t have any.
“You best come with me, then,” he said, and led me to his cruiser. Once there, I heard the general alert go out on the radio with my name and description. The officer grabbed his radio.
“I’ve got him in the back of my car.” The officer looked at me in the rearview mirror. “He’s safe and sound.”
My dad picked me up at the police station. We were both totally silent for most of the drive back home. Neither of us knew what to say. Then Dad reached out to me and pulled me to him. He said, “Jody, son, I don’t know what’s going on with you, but I’m just glad you’re home.” I broke down and said how sorry I was and that I was glad to be home and so glad to see him, too.
When I walked through the front door, Mom was there. She immediately gave me a big hug, but we didn’t talk much at that point because my brother and sister were there. They, too, just looked on quietly, confused by everything that was happening.
I think this was a massive wake-up call for our family. Children’s Aid wanted my parents to lay criminal charges against me for grand theft auto and also charge the kids I was with, but my parents had no intention of pursing anything along those lines. They understood, even if I had trouble saying what it was, that I was acting out because something was wrong. Looking back now, I can see that I felt like such a misfit that I wanted to disappear. It was only later, once I was in the army, that I realized how much a sense of belonging had been missing when I was younger.
I kept a journal at this time, full of the usual adolescent angst. “No one understands me!” or so I thought. “None of you cares!” or so I thought. The fact that my parents arranged for me to see a psychologist didn’t factor into “care” in my mind. But that connection helped me a lot. I started thinking more deeply about what I wanted to do with my life. Did I really want to just escape everything and run away? Did I want to keep hanging around with nice but aimless kids from a group home? Did I have any talents at all? Any interests I wanted to pursue? Did I want to keep upsetting my mom and dad? Finally, did I want to make something, anything, of my life?
And that’s when I made a big decision for myself, one that was finally a step in the right direction, one that was the first step down a path that would lead me to a military career.
“I want to join the army, the militia. It won’t interfere with school, Mom. During the week I’ll be a student, and on the weekends I’ll be a soldier, a Weekend Warrior . . . but I need your consent.”
“Well, we all knew this day was coming,” my mother said.
I put a pen and the consent form into my mom’s hands. She signed the form.
The next hurdle was getting my high school transcript to hand in with the form. I had to borrow a loonie from my girlfriend to do so. “Really?” she said, handing me the coin. “I can’t believe I’m helping you get yourself killed.”
I laughed. “This is Canada,” I said. “When was the last time we went to war?”
And that’s how it all started.
Editorial Reviews
“Unflinching is one of those books that you just can’t put down. What a book! What a life! Jody is an inspiration. He never quit, he never gave up, no matter how tough the road was. This book will make you proud that Jody is a Canadian.”
—Don Cherry
“Jody Mitic’s harrowing and heroic life story reveals Canada’s frontline soldiers as I know them to be: intelligent, complex, emotional and loyal. … This book is inspiration for anyone hoping to re-invent their life. Jody has triumphed at it time and again.”
—Kevin Newman, journalist/anchor and co-author of All Out
“I’ve read it all, start to finish, in one enthralled session. Unflinching is raw, personal, unforgiving, unrelenting and draws one into Jody’s life, with a vividness and a colour that’s visceral.”
—General Rick Hillier, former Chief of Defence Staff for the Canadian Forces
“Unflinching is pure Jody Mitic—smart, funny, honest, and tough. I think the first time I saw Jody he was kicking the hell out of the army half marathon on his new feet; the next time, he was a newly elected Ottawa councillor, and now he’s an accomplished storyteller. He’d be almost irritatingly capable if he wasn’t also a lovely human being.”
—Christie Blatchford, author of
Fifteen Days: Stories of Bravery, Friendship, Life and Death from Inside the New Canadian Army
“Over the last several years, Jody Mitic has been a larger-than-life figure in the military community. Reading his experiences in his own clear, humble, funny, and no-bullshit prose has offered insight to the very real human at the core of his story. I would recommend Unflinching to any Canadian, military or civilian.”
—Matt Lennox, author of The Carpenter and Knuckle Head
