This book was previously published in hardcover as The Case for Falling in Love.

Men and women are not as different as we've always been told. We're not from Venus or Mars; we were all born on planet Earth. Flying in the face of traditional relationship advice, How to Look for Love offers up a refreshing take in a world full of tired rules and fake games. This is an inspirational manifesto that brilliantly skewers the status quo while using everythingfrom Freud to Gossip Girl to help us rethink our notions of how love works.

"Funny and thought-provoking...an extremely refreshing take." Publishers Weekly, starred review

Mari Ruti is Associate Professor of Critical Theory at the University of Toronto, where she teaches contemporary theory, psychoanalysis, and continental philosophy. She is the author of Reinventing the Soul: Posthumanist Theory and Psychic Life; A World of Fragile Things: Psychoanalysis and the Art of Living; and The Summons of Love.

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"This is an eye-opening book that everyone can benefit from. Not just the single girl, but anyone dating in the 21st century." - Book Obsessed