About Gary Smalley Gary Smalley, well-known relationship expert, is the founder of the Smalley Relationship Center and the author of several dozen books, including the best-selling The Blessing and The Language of Love, as well as Food and Love and One Flame. Books by Gary Smalley The Blessing Giving the Gift of Unconditional Love and Acceptance read by John Trent & Kari Trent Stageberg by (author) Gary Smalley