An intimate and candid account of one of the most romantic and revolutionary relationships: divorce.

When Haley Mlotek was ten years old, she told her mother to leave her father. Divorce was all around her. Her mother ran a mediation and marriage counseling practice out of Mlotek’s childhood home, and Mlotek spent her preteen years answering the phones and typing out parenting plans for couples in the process of leaving each other. She grew up with the sense that divorce was an outcome to both resist and desire, an ordeal that promised something better on the other side of something bad. But when she herself went on to marry—and then divorce—the man she had been with for twelve years, suddenly, she had to reconsider everything she thought she understood about divorce.

Deftly combining her personal story with wry, searching social and literary exploration, No Fault is a brilliant account of 21st century divorce—its remarkably common yet seemingly singular impact, and what it reveals about our society and our desires for family, love, and friendship. Mlotek asks profound questions about what divorce should be, who it is for, and why the institution of marriage maintains its power, all while charting a poignant and cathartic journey away from her own marriage and towards an unknown future.

Brilliant, funny, and unflinchingly honest, No Fault is a kaleidoscopic look at marriage, secrets, ambitions, and what it truly means to love and live with uncertainty, betrayal, and hope.

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HALEY MLOTEK is a writer, editor, and organizer whose work has appeared in the New York Times Magazine, The New Yorker, The Nation, T Magazine, ELLE, Harper’s Bazaar, Hazlitt, and n+1, among others. She is a founding member of the Freelance Solidarity Project, a distinct division for digital media workers within the National Writers Union, and teaches in the English and Journalism departments at Concordia University. Previously, Mlotek was the deputy editor of SSENSE, the style editor of MTV News, the editor of The Hairpin, and the publisher of WORN Fashion Journal.

“Haley Mlotek's literary debut, No Fault, is a beautifully crafted waltz across the dance floor of divorce. She deftly and gracefully leads readers through the personal, historical, and societal aspects of marriage and divorce while innovating the genre with distinct flourishes and daring techniques. In doing so, Mlotek pens the best kind of memoir—one that allows you to reflect deeply on your personal relationship to romance and separation. No Fault is a bold and compelling read likely to stay with you long after you've put the book down.”
—Miranda Newman, bestselling author of Rough Magic
“Haley Mlotek’s No Fault is a book about life escaping the story built to contain it. A history of heterosexual love, marriage, and divorce that’s suspicious of clean answers, a winsome and poignant recounting of her own romantic formation and deformation, No Fault is a cool and bracing corrective against those many over-certain stories of marriage’s dissolution that still dominate the form. Mlotek, as always, is a master of elegant destabilization; her sentences are enigmatic, opalescent, so precise as to feel like long-lost aphorisms. We’re lucky to have her on this subject—a writer who can work in the gap between the known and the unknown, the intimate and the public, the way our lives are always forged in material context and the unreachable particularities of the human heart.”
—Jia Tolentino, New York Times bestselling author of Trick Mirror

“Sharp, smart, and searingly personal, No Fault is an ideal hybrid of rigorous reporting, social commentary, and personal reflection on the nature of love and divorce. Mlotek writes like a dream, and draws us close as she ponders what makes a marriage endure or crumble. You’ll want to join her on this journey.”
—Susan Orlean, New York Times bestselling author of The Library Book

“No Fault is a boldly intimate and political work that tenderly reveals the links between intimacy and politics; societal forces and emotional chaos. Mlotek is at home in contradiction, confidently traversing systemic analysis alongside the nuances of individual experience. From the rubble of old stories and structures, Mlotek has unearthed insights about love and endings that will stay with me for a long time.”
—Tavi Gevinson, actor and writer

“Sentence for sentence, Haley’s personal and closely examined chronicle of marriage and divorce, ‘forever’ and ‘for now,’ is keenly observed and real fun.”
—Durga Chew-Bose, author of Too Much and Not the Mood

“I'm haunted by the sophistication of Haley Mlotek’s insights and the tenderness with which they are delivered. No Fault is devastating because it is as full of pain as it is love. There is no other book on divorce or marriage—or romance—like this one.”
—Charlotte Shane, author of An Honest Woman

“Singular, dazzling and wry, No Fault weaves the personal and political in an elegant exploration of divorce’s cultural position, and of what it means to take that step yourself—moving onto ground both historically well-trodden, and unimaginably alien. There is such clarity and tenderness set out in the pristine sentences of this book.”
—Sophie Mackintosh, author of The Water Cure