In an intensely revealing memoir written for his Canadian daughter, a man breaks a lifetime of silence about the traumas of his childhood in war-torn Vietnam and his years as a refugee in revolutionary Iran.

Spanning decades and generations, this heartfelt memoir began as a series of letters from a worried father. Anh Duong had witnessed terrible things as a child during the Vietnam War, and later as a refugee in Iran during the revolution of the late 1970s. But like many in the Vietnamese diaspora, he had remained silent about his experiences, believing that trauma was better left unspoken. However, when his daughter became involved in student protests, Duong felt compelled to speak about his own experience of uprisings.

In precise prose, Dear Da-Lê moves along a taut narrative thread that begins with Duong’s birth in 1953 and ends with his arrival, frayed and broke, in Canada in 1980. With surprising moments of hope and tenderness amid brutal divisions, the author creates a coming-of-age story intertwined with the human costs of war and exile. Its revelations are sure to resonate not only with the generation born to refugees of the Vietnam War, but with anyone seeking to understand the lasting, often hidden torments of violent conflict and the healing that can take place in the act of telling.

Anh Duong was born in Thua-Thien Hue, Vietnam, and lived there and in Saigon until the mid-1970s, when he moved to Iran. He arrived in Canada in 1980, and worked for decades as an engineer in the petroleum industry in Calgary and Houston, Texas. Embarking on a writing career, Duong participated in the Banff Centre’s Emerging Writers Intensive in 2017. He lives in Calgary, AB.

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Ashley Da-Lê Duong is a Vietnamese-Canadian filmmaker based in Montreal. Her directing credits include A Time to Swim (2017), Space Explorers: Moonrise On the ISS (2023), and other award-winning documentaries. She is directing a film as a companion piece to this book.

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“Dear Da-Lê is a touching and heartfelt memoir of the Vietnam War. Imbued with a deep love of family and home, it shows us the impact that violence and a divided society has upon individual lives. This is a personal account of a past war that has immense relevance for the present.”

Vincent Lam, Giller Prize-winning author of <i>Bloodletting and Miraculous Cures</i>

“You might think you’ve already heard this story, but Anh Duong’s harrowing journey is extraordinary, even more remarkable for his surviving to tell the tale. Epic in scope, cinematic in its writing, Dear Da-Lê bears witness to the trauma of war and the way history repeats itself. May we all learn from it.”

Eric Nguyen, author of <i>Things We Lost to the Water</i>